If you are in a relationship right now, or are thinking of
going into one, there are 3 very important tips you should know and questions
you should ask yourself before you ever get yourself into a relationship. This
could save you from a lot of heartache and pain when you are involved in a love
relationship.
1. Your lover does not owe you your happiness, peace or joy.
Happiness is a state of mind we choose to have. All of your
happiness, and all of your suffering, are created by you and they do not come
from outside of you, or from others. Before you go into any type of
relationship, ask yourself these questions: "Do I really, really, really
know how to walk away from disappointment and fear? Will I be able to find the
person that I am now even after I go into this relationship and begin a new way
of life?" In short, you should not be dependent on your partner on your
emotional needs. You yourself are responsible for your own feelings and
creating positive experiences for both your partner and you whenever you are
together.
2. Love your partner for who they are. No one in this world
is perfect.
One day you will find your partner doing certain things or
saying certain things that will hurt you, disappoint you or anger you. Before
you go into any type of relationship, you have to ask yourself:"Will I be
able to love my partner for who they are. If I am unhappy or angry with
something they have said or done, will I be able to recognize my unhappiness or
anger as against their speech, actions and behavior, and not against their
persons?"
3. Will I be able to love myself as much as I love my
partner?
If you cannot love yourself, how are you going to give love
to another? This is a mistake most people make when they gointo a relationship.
They become over-obsessive with what they can give to their partners and what
they can do for their partners. To ensure a fulfilling relationship, you have
to learn to take care of your own needs as well. A true partner or lover is one
who will make sure that you do not become too dependent on them. You are
responsible for your own feelings and your own emotional needs too. You are a
beautiful being. So, take care of yourself, love yourself, treat yourself to
all the good things in life too, and do the same to your partner. Very soon you
will find true love always coming your way without any effort on your part!
As always, if you are encountering problems in your relationship,
try to dissolve all of your problems in love. And you'll be sure you are on
your way to a peaceful and fulfilling relationship!
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About The Author:
Svein Sjoen is the author for his unconventional Relationship Ebooks at www.savemarriage.totalchange.club
Discover the best and most effective strategies to finding a true love, keeping a true love or
even bringing back a lost lover or spouse! He now writes regularly on finding and attracting true love, and family related issues.
Get FREE Special Report "Tired of Failing And Heart Breaking Relationships? The Mystery of Possessing The Relationship Of Your Dreams...SOLVED!" Value at $17.95!
About The Author:
Svein Sjoen is the author for his unconventional Relationship Ebooks at www.savemarriage.totalchange.club
Discover the best and most effective strategies to finding a true love, keeping a true love or
even bringing back a lost lover or spouse! He now writes regularly on finding and attracting true love, and family related issues.
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